April is the month of the military child and if there’s one thing these past few years have taught me it’s how strong a 2 year old can truly be. If any of you know even the smallest bit of what we have gone through over the past four years, you’ll know exactly how crazy, unpredictable, and amazing our life really is. From the time I was pregnant with Mackenzie until now, our lives have been full of days, weeks, and months apart. The older Mackenzie has gotten the harder it has been to explain to her what it means when her Baba has to leave.
Whenever I ask her where her Baba is, her first answer is always “Baba went bye-bye”. It’s the most heartbreaking thing in the world when in reality Koryn is home and not away. In her toddler mind, Mackenzie has gotten so use to Koryn being gone so it’s almost automatic for her to say that.
Some days I have no clue how I’ll make it to dinner time much less 6 more months of dinner times before our family is together but I do know my little family is stronger than any time we spend apart.
Kenzie has been on countless 12+ hour road trips, numerous flights back home to meet family for the first time, and has also spent more night than I’d like to admit crying for her Baba and not understanding when Koryn isn’t here.
In a few short months, she’ll be taking the biggest adventure of her life when we move to Alaska but this was the best (and only) decision to keep our family together even if it means moving away for the next 3 years.
We have been so extremely lucky and blessed to have such an amazing support system both near and far for our family. Mackenzie is so lucky to be surrounded by so many people who love and care for her every single day.
This month is about all the military children who are part of this life and how amazing they all are.