We are almost halfway done with this pregnancy and baby #2 is another girl! This has flown by but has always caused me so many health issues. I am so beyond thankful for this sweet little one still growing strong despite everything I’ve been going through! It’s been a while since I updated on here so I decided it was time. We are expecting our second little girl late December/early January. We found out when I was 15 weeks that I’m having another little girl and Mackenzie is so excited to have a little sister!
I’ve been having different follow up appointments almost weekly since my brain surgery. Last week I needed to have my shunt re-programmed due to overdraining. So far the changes have been great for me but I’m still have some headaches. It can take a full 4-6 weeks before my body is completely use to these changes. With all my health issues, our orders to Alaska were denied. We need to be somewhere where I can receive the right type of care with the right types of specialist and right now Alaska in not that place. We are still moving very soon but we will be moving to the Pacific Northwest instead! We are so excited about this new duty station and this move! We are going to be reunited with so many of our friends and Kenzie will be able to meet her godparents for the first time!
These next few weeks are going to be a little crazy between all of my final doctor’s appointments in Tennessee, visiting our families in Florida, and making the trek to Washington.
Less than 2 weeks ago, my whole world was turned upside down. My symptoms started over a month and a half ago by this point but I finally got an answers a little less Jan 2 weeks ago. On top of have headaches where I couldn’t function a the pain was so bad I was throwing up almost daily, I was also losing my vision and knew that if something wasn’t done I would go blind sooner rather than later. Two weeks ago I had my neurologist appointment and he sent me right to the ER where I was admitted. We were then in a race against time to save my vision.
When I first got to the ER, the neuro ophthalmologist was in my room in the ER less than 10 mins after the ER doctor called them and I had so many tests done on my eyes. The ER doctor said they have never had they come down that fast for anyone but my case was pretty bad. The swelling was so bad that I was diagnosed with grade 4 and 5 Papilledema. The clock was really ticking now to save my eyesight and I was faced with the hard reality that I could never get to see the face of this baby I’m carrying or that I wouldn’t be able see Mackenzie grow up. It was very hard for me to come to terms with. While I was in the hospital, I had an AMAZING medical team who always made sure I knew everything that was going on and ALWAYS made sure I was informed and comfortable. My medical team always told me whatever decision I picked (the medication or surgery) they would be behind me 100% of the way. I am forever grateful for my medical team for giving me back my life.
We were fighting my very fast progression of vision loss because of the pressure in my head. And we were fighting for the best treatment option for me and this baby I’m carrying. When I first got told about my IIH and Papilledema, I knew I had two options, either medication or brain surgery for a shunt placement . In reality, given how fast my condition was progressing and the added fact I’m pregnant, my options turned into just one option. In the end, the shunt surgery was the option for me and my family.
Today, I had a follow up with my neuro ophthalmologist and he said if he didn’t know my history he wouldn’t be able to even tell I ever had swelling in my optic nerves. My vision is back to normal! I still have a little bond spot on my left eye but that could take a few weeks to return to normal, if it ever does. If it doesn’t go away, then it’s something I can definitely live with given the alternative. I have to go back every 6 weeks during my pregnancy to have my eyes checked but my doctor is confident that my shunt is doing its job and I shouldn’t have any issues with my vision during this pregnancy.
I’m still extremely exhausted all the time and we are doing a lot of driving back and forth to Nashville for all my specialist but I am so thankful for my doctors and the treatment I am receiving. We’re slowing going back into a normal routine and next week is going to be hard with Koryn going back to work but we’re making it through day by day. Thank you so so much to everyone for your love and support for our family during these past few weeks. Our world has been turned upside down more than once but we’re coming out fighting and stronger than ever after this. Now to continue to grow this little one until Christmas 🙌🏽💚🎄
After a very long few months, we are very excited to announce that we are adding to our little family! A few weeks ago we found out I am pregnant again! I could not believe my eyes when I saw those lines and as a matter of fact I didn’t. I ended up going out in the middle of the night to buy more tests since of course I would be out of tests that day. Things got even more confusing when a super faint second line appeared on one test but the digital one said not pregnant. I did know that the digital test required more HCG hormone to say pregnant but this was not helping my confusion on anxiety. Since it was already so late at night, I decided to just got to bed and test again in the morning. Koryn woke me up at 4 am to test before she left for PT that moring. This is when our lives changed in the blink of an eye. Every test I took said pregnant! 👶🏽
I could not believe it! We slowly started breaking the news to our close friends and family and everyone was so excited. We told Kenzie that she was going to be a big sister and she spent the morning running around the house screaming “big sister, big sister!” She is so beyond excited to become a big sister.
Earlier this week, I had my first ultrasound and everything was beyond perfect with our baby! The baby was growing right on track and had a perfect heartbeat of 135! For now, I am being seen at the same birthing center I was seen at with Mackenzie even though I won’t be delivering there. I have made contact with a home birth midwife in Alaska and will set up my first appointment once we get there. Because of my pregnancy, we will be reporting early to Alaska so I can have the baby up there rather than making the trek with a newborn, toddler, and dog. 🤰🏽👶🏽
We are so exciting for baby Rivers #2 to arrive in December 💚❤️
Until next time,
The Rivers Family 🌈
April is the month of the military child and if there’s one thing these past few years have taught me it’s how strong a 2 year old can truly be. If any of you know even the smallest bit of what we have gone through over the past four years, you’ll know exactly how crazy, unpredictable, and amazing our life really is. From the time I was pregnant with Mackenzie until now, our lives have been full of days, weeks, and months apart. The older Mackenzie has gotten the harder it has been to explain to her what it means when her Baba has to leave.
Whenever I ask her where her Baba is, her first answer is always “Baba went bye-bye”. It’s the most heartbreaking thing in the world when in reality Koryn is home and not away. In her toddler mind, Mackenzie has gotten so use to Koryn being gone so it’s almost automatic for her to say that.
Some days I have no clue how I’ll make it to dinner time much less 6 more months of dinner times before our family is together but I do know my little family is stronger than any time we spend apart.
Kenzie has been on countless 12+ hour road trips, numerous flights back home to meet family for the first time, and has also spent more night than I’d like to admit crying for her Baba and not understanding when Koryn isn’t here.
In a few short months, she’ll be taking the biggest adventure of her life when we move to Alaska but this was the best (and only) decision to keep our family together even if it means moving away for the next 3 years.
We have been so extremely lucky and blessed to have such an amazing support system both near and far for our family. Mackenzie is so lucky to be surrounded by so many people who love and care for her every single day.
This month is about all the military children who are part of this life and how amazing they all are.
Happy re-enlistment day to my wife! Today she made the commitment for another 6 years in the Army and with that comes new orders! On Friday, we found out where the Rivers family will be moving next! We are so excited to announce we will be leaving Tennessee at the end of the year and moving to….
You read that right! The Rivers are trading in their beach gear for some skis and snowboards. At the end of the year, we will be saying our ‘see you laters’ to Tennessee and starting our trek to Alaska. Tennessee has been an amazing adventure and we have made so many amazing friends here so it is going to be hard to leave but home is where the Army send us.
It’s going to be so hard to leave this amazing place but we are so excited to be together for the next three years and see what adventures Alaska brings to our family. We have already started to plan for this move and I’m so glad we have more than a two week notice to move this time around.
Stay tuned to read more about our Alaskan adventures and the experience of a lifetime that our family will be taking over the next three years!
Until next time,
The Rivers Family